One of the biggest things new mothers have to combat after giving birth is their new body image. For 9 months, your body changed and developed into something entirely different than it was before. Beautifully encasing a growing baby, your body is (for most) easy to cherish during that time. Then the baby comes and it’s as though your body morphed into something not-so-desirable in the snap of a finger. All of the sudden, you realize that you’re overweight, have a very flabby belly, your thighs and butt are larger than they were before, and your boobs aren’t nearly as perky.
While I am the first to say that mother’s bodies are beautiful and the media has it totally wrong to consider the only form of beauty to be unhealthily thin models with large curves in very defined places (and forget stretch marks, or puffy eyes, right?), I am also the first to understand how hard it is to accept our new bodies once we become mothers. It’s pretty tough to be sleep deprived, give of yourself so much in every way to those around you 24-hours a day, and somehow still feel beautiful.
After LoveBug’s birth, it wasn’t an option for me to do anything but breastfeed. I was so committed to it that I practically lived with my breast pump at all times since I had to work full time +. With breastfeeding also came the nursing bras…and boy, are they ugly! What is it with frumpy looking old-lady-beige colored nursing bras? Why didn’t it occur to someone that us nursing moms need an extra boost of self confidence? I once heard a male coworker state “why would you need to wear a sexy bra after you’re married? No one will see it…” I rolled my eyes.
It took me a very, very long time to find sexy nursing bras on the market that fit me (size 32huge–how would it make YOU feel if even Victoria’s Secret didn’t even carry your size?). Most of them are very expensive (at least to the cheapskate that I am), but I think they are totally worth it. So ladies, throw out your frumpy beige bolder holders, and stock your drawers full of these:
From New Zealand, they sell matching bra and panty sets, include 3/4 cup size for pregnant and nursing mamas. Not only this, but they also have a few lingerie “nightie” selections, some pj’s, and a camisole. Bras average around $60.00 and sport dramatic names like “Her Midnight Charm Was Striking” and “Tamed By Her Sensuality.” Oh, yes. I snagged an “Awakened By Her Desire” bra over Black Friday and am happy to report that the fit is pretty good, and it’s a very sturdy bra. I thought the lace overlay was cheesier in real life than in the photo, but it’s still 100x better than the beige. The nursing enclosure, like most nursing bras, leaves a strap in place where the cup would be when you open the nursing flap.
My husband got me their “Plum Pudding” bra for Christmas and I have to say that it is the BEST fit in a bra that I have EVER had. I only wish that I had gotten a larger band size, but the cups are awesome! They’re actually round and hold their shape which I can’t say for most other bras (it seems that most are oblong one way or another). I also love that when you drop the nursing flap/cup, there is no strap that crosses your breast. It’s just like a regular bra that will drop the cup on your command. Super comfy, very well made, and cute as all get out. I am hoping for another one come Valentine’s Day and our anniversary. 😉